How Your Life Unfolds Depends On What You Believe

Personal Development

Sasha Xarrian, or Celia Vae Higley to call her by her birth name, is a very remarkable woman.
Her ability to think and live deliberately is phenomenal.

Celia was born to a Mormon family in Utah and learned from a very early age the power of faith and prayer.
Faith and prayer are not the preserve of the Mormons or any other religion. We all have faith in something even if it is only that the sun will rise in the morning and set at night. Every belief system has a version of prayer from reciting the holy Koran to meditating, kneeling in a Christian church or making a wish.

The Mormon Church has a very detailed belief system, which has a tendency to erase all doubt in a followers mind. For example, it regards itself as God’s only true Church and so will go to great lengths to obtain the names of people that have died, from any faith or non at all. These unknown people are then baptised by proxy into the Mormon faith. The belief is that when these strangers get to heaven baptised as Mormons they can live forever in the presence of the Heavenly Father and Jesus. Being a Mormon is a completely closeted and organised way of life. There is a doctrine for everything.

Sasha’s journey from being a successful young leading light of the all-encompassing Church through betrayal, disillusionment, poverty and despair to a successful businesswoman whilst raising six children is inspirational. It should be turned into a Hollywood movie, though I doubt that she would agree.

As a result of her betrayal and disillusionment she made the very difficult decision to leave the Mormons. However she took with her a system of faith and religious practice that went on to form a solid foundation upon which she could seek, test and develop her new life without question.

What she developed along the way was a remarkable system for manifesting whatever she desired – a house, wealth, relationships and getting parking spots whenever she wanted them!
Naturally she felt that other people could benefit from her experiences, discoveries and insights so she wrote a book or more accurately a course.

What is presented in Sasha’s book, “Outrageous Mastery”, is her journey through life, presented in a rather different format. It plays with her current belief system based on Xperimenting (sic) with life, power and with who we are (assuming we are special and possibly divine with divine and Godly powers.
“The power to create dreams is real. It is the energy force of the universe. It does not require hard work. It does not require sacrifice or compromise. It is the power to create a life of ease, filled with love, wonder, awe, laughter and play. And it is available to you – right now.” (from Outrageous Mastery)

Sasha makes the point that when you have a powerful positive belief system, where you believe you are not alone in creating your life, then magic happens. Little things occur, a conversation, a phone call. Then one day your whole world changes. You look forward to creating your life with a smile on your face, with enjoyment, with power and as a creator rather than someone to whom things just happen. Your good thoughts become things. Good things.

Now since our belief systems are how we create our lives, and determine whether we have fun or not, it is important to actively create the right belief system which will result in the good thoughts.
So, what is your belief system? Write it down.
What is it you believe about life? If it is not an empowering belief, create one that is. From this will come your thoughts, which become things. Make them good ones!

We all have belief systems whether we acknowledge them or not, and they are directing our lives. As Sasha discovered, you have the power to choose one that creates a fun, playful, loving and powerful life for you. One that demonstrates your outrageous mastery over the illusions of time and space.
In her book, Sasha discloses the results of her thirty years of Xperimenting, learning and experience, such as:

• How you acquire doubt-free & powerful faith
• How to create money
• How to blast through limitations, fear and worry
• How to heal illnesses
• How to hear answers to prayer
• How to pray effectively
• How to create daily miracles
• How to create outrageous love in your life

“Outrageous Mastery” is in three parts, Sasha’s story, the ‘how to’ book and a workbook to be used in conjunction with the ‘how to ‘ book.
It is only available as an ebook on the internet.

Find out more at here at  Personal Development
I thoroughly recommend it.

The Plight Of Orphans In Africa

I stamped on the brakes hard. Thanks to ABS my car stopped within inches of the car in front. Close! I wiped the offending tears from my eyes. The tears that had nearly brought me to grief. They had flowed naturally and spontaneously as I listened to a speaker on the radio describing how a family of five young children had watched their mother die slowly and horribly over a period of several months. She was all they had. Their father had gone, and now she was going. They did what they could to ease her suffering, to deal delicately with the indignities she had to endure. And when she finally drew her last agonising breath and left her wasted, skeletal, broken body, they were alone. Yet another sibling family.
The place is any number of countries in Africa. The disease is of course HIV/AIDS. The speaker was Stephen Lewis the UN Secretary General’s Special Envoy for HIV/AIDS in Africa. A new orphan is created every 14 secs.
There is no welfare system to support them. Most of their adult relatives have already died or are struggling to cope with the symptoms. For these children, there is no one to give parental love and care, tell them a story or tuck them up in bed at night. No more mothering, no kissing better of a scrazed knee. Nothing but an empty space where mummy and daddy used to be.
Today, over 11 million children under the age of 15 living in sub-Saharan Africa have been robbed of one or both parents by HIV/AIDS. Seven years from now, the number is expected to have grown to 20 million. At that point, anywhere from 15 per cent to over 25 per cent of the children in a dozen sub-Saharan African countries will be orphans – the vast majority of them will have been orphaned by HIV/AIDS.
Children as young as 10 or 11 take on the roles of mother or father. In some cases courageous grandparents can fill in the gap, but often they are no longer around.
If you are reading this then you live in a developed country. HIV/AIDS is a problem but not a pandemic. This is because your society has access to drugs, condoms and education. The Africans, still reeling from the disruption to their old orders by European colonization, have not.
These citizens of Africa are, at heart, no different to you and I. Like you and I they have known grief and pain, like you and I they have known joy and happiness, like you and I they have known love. And like you and I they need food, shelter and a chance to be the best they can be. Right now they are doing the best with what they’ve got.
We are all a part of the human race. Why then do we, through the governments we elect and the huge corporations whose products we buy, refuse to lend our fellow humans a helping hand?
They do their best to help themselves.
Stephen Lewis visited a remote farm run by a group of women who were brave enough to declare openly that they were living with HIV/AIDS. They had banded together and ran a market garden producing cabbages, which they sold at a nearby market. Stephen asked them what they did with the surplus money they generated. There was an awkward silence. They couldn’t believe that the answer wasn’t obvious. “We buy coffins ….. there are never enough coffins.
We, as a society, spend ever-increasing amounts of money on distractions and more efficient ways of killing each other, but pay no regard to the indescribable suffering of our fellow human beings. Not much money at all will go a long way to providing drugs to help reign in the HIV/AIDS pandemic. Not much money at all would pay school fees and provide food and although I don’t know how to do it, money must surely be applied to giving love, comfort and practical support to the millions of children who have been forced to take over the family responsibilities of their dead parents.
And what are we doing about it? Well WE, and that is all of us because WE voted in the current regime of western politicians, are doing nothing. I’m not sure how many billions are being spent on wars in the Middle East and the machinery of war in other parts of the world. But I do know that it massively exceeds what is being spent to aid our fellow human beings.
As Archbishop Desmond Tutu says, “We are one world and these children are our children. Their fate is our fate, each of us can make a difference. Everyone can help to save lives.”
You, the reader, have the power to do something. Visit the Stephen Lewis Foundation website at and decide how you can help. Our governments and our corporations have so far, not been forthcoming. We are all members of the human race. Let’s act with humanity.


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